Society

The society we live in, the one we thought have been develop are in fact have decreasing it's essence.

From century ago, this society has a strict rule among men and women. A role we must play, whether we like it or not. because when we abandoned those rule it will come with confusion. off course there must be not limitation of a woman to learn things, but as long as a woman have a freedom on education there come with the price that man should try twice harder in gaining their education. this way, our society can grow and develop into a better society. 

Recently I've been awarded myself by achieving the bucket list I delayed so many years. It didn't come without any obstacle. After decided that I want to keep learning new things and develop myself in education and research in 2017, there are so many obstacle both from external and internal. I find myself struggling to take an action toward my decision. 5 years later I finally moving forward and take a step towards my goals. Become a participant of Youth Innovation Forum 2022 is my first step towards my goals. But there was always an obstacle and consequence in every actions. 

I find myself grow, achieving new things, and be the better version of myself. But, it was so hard for me to be a humble person. I find myself getting conflict with the people who work with me in Youth Innovation Forum 2023. I learned that although I gain new achievement, got new knowledge, and new skill, it doesn't mean that I am better than anyone else. I realize that every person is special in their own way. To be a humble although you've reach a higher position in life will give you honor and respect from other. The natural law sometimes have their own way, but one is certain, you have to gain honor, respect, and trust from other by giving it first. 

As I learned to be more humble individual, I find out that in Islam there was a phrase said :

قال الحسن رحمه الله: هل تدرون ما التواضع؟ التواضع: أن تخرج من منزلك فلا تلقى مسلماً إلا رأيت له عليك فضلاً .
" Do you know what Tawadhu' is? Twadhu' is you leave your home and then you meet a Moslem, then you feel that he/she is more noble than you"
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That phrase slap me through my heart and my face. I am nothing but a human. So why on earth I should feel proud of myself? Because in this world there will always be someone who did better than me, someone who are more noble than me, and they didn't show it either. To be a humble is a good Moslem character. Humble is putting yourself between arrogant and inferiority. As also Indonesian phrase said "padi semakin berisi semakin merunduk" that how every human supposed to be and supposed to feel. because we're nothing in this universe but only A Human.