Out of The Routine

masih ngomongin travelling kemarin. sebetulnya kemarin bukan travelling pertama gue tapi kemarin adalah travelling pertama terlama. waktu ke Semarang itu PP jadi cuma seharian travellingnya. waktu ke Bangkok itu tiga hari tapi pake tour jadi bukan travelling itu mah liburan haha. Nah yang kemarin ke Singapore sama Malaysia ini baru travelling.

untuk sejenak dalam 5 tahun ini pertama kalinya bagi gue dan temen-temen gue keluar dari rutinitas sehari-hari. sejak masuk kuliah hampir rutinitas kita sama. pergi kuliah, sibuk sama kegiatan kampus, seminggu atau sebulan sekali ketemu untuk hangout. setelah lulus kuliah pun sama, sibuk kerja dan seminggu atau dua minggu sekali ketemu untuk hangout. Tapi kemarin waktu ke Singapore dan Malaysia kita satu minggu bareng-bareng di negeri orang. Buat gue itu betul-betul out of routine.

Gue belajar adaptasi lagi, belajar bahasa lagi, belajar gimana caranya socialize with local people, and it was so much fun. I met new people. Bahkan sampe terang-terangan berantem sama sahabat sendiri. It's so new and rarely happen. At somehow it is confusing and annoying because we don't know anyone, and I am their tour leader. So even though I met someone and I knew someone, eventually I couldn't just leave them alone. I think that's how we learn each other again and I get know my friends better and deeper and also I am figuring out my self though. what I really want and what I feel comfort with. That's what I found in this travel.

And finally I realize one thing. I need a new fresh start in my life and I want to start it with someone that I can rely on. This whole time I keep asking, why do people married? now I knew the answer. To start a new life. That's why in my country people say "selamat menempuh hidup baru" to the groom and bride. 

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